It takes balls to keep growing after you’ve
grown up.
I moved to New York, by choice, at age 60 and didn’t know a soul. I did it all and all by myself. I found it so exhilarating. Discovering new places and new places and new people gets my endorphins flowing and my solo dates helped me become a citizen of the city and I made a few great friends along the way. COVID brought that all to a screeching halt and when we got to the other side, it seemed like my light and the light of the city had dimmed. I stopped going out and since I work from home, let's just say I wasn't having that much fun. So here I am, back in the saddle, Not just exploring but committed to making sure my fourth chapter - and yours- are exciting, invigorating and fun!
The story of how I got here
How to Love Solo Dining: A Beginner’s Guide
Solo dining can be a powerful act of self-love, independence and even adventure.
Sitting alone too much doesn’t just make you lonely—it can literally make you sick.
The recliner is a comfort, yes—but it’s no substitute for life. Life is messy, noisy, sometimes awkward… and full of connection. Every small step out of this chair is a step toward being sharper, happier, and healthier.
The Hidden Perks of Going Out Alone
Going out alone isn’t a fallback—it’s a choice. It’s a chance to own your time, your space, and your energy. It’s an opportunity to meet new people, recharge mentally and grow your confidence.
The Social Muscle: Why You Have to Exercise It to Keep It Strong
Socializing is like a muscle. If you don’t use it, it weakens. And just like your body, your social confidence needs regular movement to stay strong.
Five Mini-Challenges to Make Going Out Alone Less Scary
Going out solo can feel intimidating—even downright terrifying. But here’s the truth: the only way to get more comfortable being out on your own is to practice it.
How to Walk into a Room and Own It: 10 Steps for Women Over 60
Walking into a room alone—whether it’s a restaurant, a bar, a networking event, or a social gathering—can feel intimidating. But as a woman over 50, you bring a lifetime of experience, confidence, and charm. You don’t just enter a room—you make an entrance. Here’s how to do it with style and presence:
The Coffee & Cake Revival: Why It’s Time to Bring Back a Beloved Ritual
Do you still do coffee and cake? Why did we ever stop with the Entenmann’s?
Past the Stereotypes: Redefining What Aging Really Looks Like
Aging doesn’t mean fading into the background. It doesn’t mean shrinking, softening, or settling into some tired script that was written for us decades ago. It means we finally get to rewrite the script — our way.
Stop Treating Us Like Caricatures
We’re not interested in being cartoon versions of ourselves. We’re real people, living full and evolving lives and we want to be seen that way.
Joyspan - or I won’t tell you about my aches and pains if you won’t tell me about yours.
Joyspan, like health span, is about more than just living longer. It’s about living better.
The 3 Regrets of Retirees—and How to Dodge Every One Like a Damn Pro
Let’s make regret the one thing that never makes it into your retirement plan.
5 Signs You're Aging Disgracefully
And why that’s the highest compliment you’ll ever earn.
Aging Dis-gracefully
Why being called “graceful” feels like an insult—and what we’re doing instead.
Things That Feel Like Therapy
You don’t need a diagnosis to deserve relief. You just need a few moments that remind you who the hell you are.
It’s Time to Find an Adventure Buddy
Life is full of possibilities, but sometimes, we need someone by our side to nudge us into the unknown, cheer us on and share in unforgettable moments.
Don’t Let Your Age Be Your Cage
It’s time to kick down the walls of those expectations and let the world know that age is a number, not a sentence.
How I’m Attempting to Make the Mirror My Friend Again
My mirror and I may never be besties, but we’re working toward mutual respect.
November solo date recap
I didn’t plan it this way, but somehow, I ended up seeing 4 Broadway shows in November! Here’s what I saw!
The Art of Spontaneity: Why Growing Older Means Growing Bolder!
If there’s one thing society likes to tell us about aging, it’s that life after 60 should be slow, predictable, and wrapped in a cozy blanket of routine. We call BS.
Redefining Fun: Why Your 60s Are the Best Time to Try New Things
Your 60s aren’t a “wind down” decade—they’re your second wind!